A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Today i ignored my friend/crush because hes been really conceited and wont talk to me by text, email, or AIM. Me and my fiend were on the bus sitting across from one another and he sat behind my friend grace. Me and G played a no talking game and R my crush was staring at me the whole time. Like it was really bothering him that I wasn't talking to him. then when i finally turned to talk to just G he would but into the conversation. Just to say a few words to me but I still ignored his talking and just talked to G about what we were talking about. He butted in like I was talking to him but I would just stare at G because he has been not friendlike to me lately. What should I do? iTS OK FOR HIM TO IGNORE ME BUT WHEN i DO IT TO HIM IT BOTHERS HIM?
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reader, girl from bristol +, writes (3 February 2010):
i dont think these mind games are good for either of you and he should grow up and you should find a decent guy
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2010): NO, this is not ok... what you're doing is inflicting pain, tit-for-tat. It's a horrible way to treat people and you can not afford to 'learn' this as a relationship tool. This is a sign of emotional immaturity that can be carried into people later years- do yourself a favor and learn how to be in mature relationships... that means honesty is a major requirement.
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reader, alexis** +, writes (3 February 2010):
stop thinking/worrying bout him! if hes really in2 you then you will no...he will come2 you. hes pry tryin2 see how in2 him you are. just waite4 his txt, emails, & AIMs to flow in. if its not happening at 1st play like everything's still good when you see him.
he sounds a lil childish tho, so idk how good a bf he'd even make
goodluck:)
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