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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:me and my boyfriend have tried twice to have sex and i'm not sure what is going on..he just can't seem to keep an erection.im trying really hard to give him pleasure and give him an organisms everytime but i just can't please... help any tips/tricks? something?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2010): Why do women internalize performance problems men have ???STOP! don't think " it must be my fault". Highly suggest you and he sit down outside the bedroom and discuss openly and honestly what the issues are or may be. Accept no fault and cast no blame either! It could be many things. anxity, stress, depression, ED. religion,up bringing, or a host of other issues. Just calmly, carefully and rationally talk about the issue and work toward resolving them. "The soldier is having a problem in trench warfare and may need some more basic training."(See,, you can start the conversation on a humorous note, and keep the conversation relaxed- less clinical,, and still get the issue out where you and he can figure out the solution.) .
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (3 February 2010):
 Maybe he has performance anxiety and losing his erection has nothing to do with your own umm peformance.
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reader, junebug81409 +, writes (3 February 2010):
My husband tried these pills to make it bigger and the sex to last longer and now he stop taking them and he can get it up but it wont stay hard.he didnt even need the pills he took them cuz they was free and now our sex is awful and we always had good sex.im sorry i wasnt help but the point im getting at is that do u think maybe he took something to make it better to impress u for the first couple times?like almost like my husband?its just a thought.i wish u the best of luck!
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (3 February 2010):
 Twice ain't much, and the information provided is skimpy at best.
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