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writes:I'm in a real relationship for the first time and have a three month old. I have been with my boyfriend for about a year now. But whenever he goes near his aunt, I feel like they might start something. It's not like they are blood related or anything. I just have high insecurities after she told me that she liked his butt. Most aunts won't say that about their own nephew unless they want to have sex. What do you think I should do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2010): His aunt is 25 years old.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 February 2010):
I don't think anything will happen between them. You have real facts or anything, just an idea that because she said she liked his butt she fancies him. She may have said that just for a joke. If you're worried, ask your boyfriend for some reassurance.
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reader, LallaZine +, writes (3 February 2010):
 As you are in a real relationship for the first time, it must be very special and therefore you wouldn't want anyone to come between you and your guy and that's why you want things to go really well. Perfectly normal. It's also normal for you to have small doubts, 'insecurities' or questions about the relationship, this is probably why the Aunt's comment has got you thinking. But, if she said it in jest..just messing around...I would just ignore it. It's probably her way of saying that she thinks your a lucky girl for being with her nephew as in he's a nice guy. I dont think there's anything sexual intended from this one comment. Do you have any other concerns? or is it just that comment? if so forget about it, it's probably nothing to worry about. Good luck with your relationship
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (3 February 2010):
 Saying you like somebody's butt doesn't always mean you want to have sex with somebody. If this is all you are basing your concerns on I dont think you need worry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2010): tell him what she said, and/or tell her not to say things like that tell him what she said tell her it's not appropriate to say things like that and then tell his mother or someone related to him and her both.
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