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writes:theres a guy that really likes me but he already has a gf he said he will break up with her for me but she is my friend and i dont want to hurt her. should i go out with this guy? Reply to this Question
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reader, 738 +, writes (3 February 2010):
738 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am the original writer of "guy over friend?" i just wanted to say thanks to the ppl who answered that really helped i think i would rather keep my friend
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reader, girl from bristol  +, writes (3 February 2010):
hi you should not get involved with him as you will lose a good friend
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (3 February 2010):
 Pick your friend.
At your age don't expect a lasting relationship with this guy, ... it will be over before you know it and you will have lost them both. You may be able to keep your friend forever tho, ... If but only if, ...you are a good friend to her and don't move in on her boyfriend.
This guy sounds like an immature little boy btw, ..not only is he happy to come between your friendship, he is stringing your friend along by staying with her for 'convienience' when it is clear he does not give a rats about her if happy to dump her once something new comes along. Who says he would not do the same to you? Certainly not his actions.
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reader, New2thisLifeThing +, writes (3 February 2010):
As a person who has been cheated on, I guess the thing that would bother me is. If he is so easy to drop her for you, without regard for her feelings, or the fact that you are friends, how loyal is he going to be to you? My only advice would be, feel good with yourself and good thing will come to you not at you. You are young enough that life will not be the way you think it will be. Use this time in your life to plan how you want to be and not how you want things to be.
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (3 February 2010):
 Friend. You will find in life that boyfriend, husbands, bosses, etc come and go but your friends (male and female) can be a source of lifelong joy and companionship.
Friend.
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