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anonymous
writes:ok i think my ex is lying to me about having a boyfriend. because just a couple of days ago on facebook she found out i had a girlfriend and then she says that she has a boyfriend who supports the same football team as me. but the night my ex found out about me and my new girlfriend my ex still had her status as single. and on that same night my new girlfriend dumped me and i changed my status back to single. but today on facebook i noticed my ex had her status as in a relationship but i still think she is lying because why would she change her status now. my ex always calls me honey. and on new years eve she said to me that she is listening to our song when we went out. is she doing this because she still has feelings for me and is making me jealous. and she never said what her boyfriend name is. I need to know if she is lying or telling the truth please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2010): ask yourself this- why do you need to know that? So what if she felt insecure enough to feel like she had to lie, her friends and family should be helping her through that now, and you if you feel like you can or want to. But as far as i can see there would be 3 main reasons why you'd want to know- 1. Because you want to be her friend and don't want to be lied to in that position or feel like she was playing games. If this is the case, what are you doing to be her friend, are you pushing the boundaries and leading her on, or are you shying away and not being there for her?
2. Because you want to be more than friends. Well it sounds like she may well do, in which case, tread carefully, if she is in a relationship you don't want to hurt that.
3. Because you're just curious and maybe want to laugh at her a bit but don't really care either way. In that case, leave it. Sorry that hasn't been much of a thorough answer but i really feel you need to know why you care before knowing what the problem you want help with is. The 4th option is maybe you still care about her, in the way that people do about their exes, and do feel jealous but would not want to go back there. The horrible awkward missing them being around phase ends, that's something that will come with time.
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reader, serferboy  +, writes (4 February 2010):
im sure she is lying it cant be that hard to find the name of her boyfriend if she actually had one it sound like she still likes you anyways and shes probably not ready to move on
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reader, junebug81409 +, writes (3 February 2010):
You guys are playing games with each other.no one can says weather or not she is lying except her cuz we really dont know but i think u two need to just talk it out and get back together.u two feel for each other so get over playing games and just talk!!!!!!!!!!!good luck!
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reader, girl from bristol +, writes (3 February 2010):
i think she still has feelings for you i dont think she is lying though
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