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anonymous
writes:How can i cum or orgasm when i masterbate without sticking my finger / anything else in my vagina ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2010): U dont have to stick anything in a vagina to cum. Female orgasm is achieved by stimulating the clitoris which is located much further up. Rub around there with your fingers (wet them first) until you cum.
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (3 February 2010):
read a racy novel and squeeze your legs together.
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reader, girl from bristol  +, writes (3 February 2010):
well you can pleasure yourself by playing with your nipples or pussy and playing around your hole even in the hole but the best way is to get a man involved who can do things with you and you do things to him and also sex too
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reader, NM1218  +, writes (3 February 2010):
Stimulate you clitoris,for many women do not orgasm through penetration.So even when you do eventually have intercourse with a man,you may not orgasm.Good thing you are not having sex.
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reader, veronika  +, writes (3 February 2010):
 Stimulate your clitoris while thinking about something that turns you on.
Stimulating the clit is one of the main ways girls and women orgasm, because they're easier to achieve than vaginal orgasms.
If you're unsure where your clitoris is, check this wiki page:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clitoris
You should be able to find what you're looking for there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2010): Okay so you my gf just wets her finger with either her tongue or her juice from her vagina and then starts to rup her fingers on the opening of the vagina and then moving them gently on the top of her vagina maybe you could try variations of this.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (3 February 2010):
 Even an older man knows something about this, having raised a stepdaughter with very open communication, and from youthful experiences long ago. If masturbation can curtail actual sexual activity with a young man at this point and at your age, it would be wise of you.
Think erotic thoughts, whatever they may be, and massage your breasts and nipples to arousal. Eventually wet your fingertips with saliva or lubricant (water-based) and slowly begin massaging your vulva lips (privates). Move your fingers up and down and occasionally circle your hole. Some girls also enjoy massaging their anus at times during masturbation; even with some insertion. Continue to maintain moisture all around (natural or otherwise) and if your arousal grows strong, gradually move your fingertips to massage around and near your clitoris.
Ultimately, your desires may lead you to focus mainly on massaging your clit. Move your fingers up and down, or sideways, circular or whatever feels best for you. Begin lightly at first, then increase speed and pressure as you wish. That's really all there is to it, and someday, an experienced man will help all that happen for you. But please wait until you are quite a bit older.
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