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writes:Im sharing my boyfriend with other woman and im not happy because she has a child with him. What should I do? I love him so much I dont want to loose him. Reply to this Question
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reader, Shiny Moon  +, writes (9 October 2009):
Is your boy friend married to other women. if so then ur in between their happiness. looks like that to me.
Also if they are not married then it is obvious from ur question that he cant leave the other women becoz she gave him a child.
It can also be that he is with other women just for the sake of his child. may be he really loves u and he is seeing other women just for child.
If you love him so much and cant let go of him then try to live by compromising and leaving ur self respect.
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reader, Shiny Moon +, writes (9 October 2009):
Is your boy friend married to other women. if so then ur in between their happiness. looks like that to me.
Also if they are not married then it is obvious from ur question that he cant leave the other women becoz she gave him a child.
It can also be that he is with other women just for the sake of his child. may be he really loves u and he is seeing other women just for child.
If you love him so much and cant let go of him then try to live by compromising and leaving ur self respect.
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reader, Emaz help  +, writes (9 October 2009):
 I have EXACTLY the same situation, i can't stand having to share him, he gets along with his ex and they go out for meals together and she even pays for his car insurance! When he stayed round hers because it was their sons first day at school i absolutely hated it, i'm even considering splitting up with him because i can't stand feeling jealous over it and i know we'll have arguments. Sorry i can't give adivce but i thought i'd share my feelings with you lol tell me what you're going to do when you figure it out lol
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reader, jasmas99 +, writes (9 October 2009):
 I take it your boyfriend is with you, not you and the mother of his child?If thats the case, then surely you knew the score when you first got with him?If you love him, then you have to accept his baggage. Dont get paranoid about the mother, he wouldnt have to see her if he didnt have a child with her.He may get on well with his ex for the childs sake, and that is great, its good for the child when things go so smoothly.If your boyfriend wanted to be with the mother he wouldnt be with you. Dont think of it as sharing, you have him not her. Yes he no doubt has to see the mother in order to see his child, but remember his with you not her.If he is one of the lucky ones who has a good friendship with his ex, then try and get involved more, go with him to see his child, become a part of it rather than thinking your having to share him, these people are always going to play a huge part in his life, so therefore they will always be in your life too. Get involved more and try and be a bit more hands on with him when he collects his child, your see his there for the child not the mother.
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