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female
age
36-40,
*oundandconfused
writes:I have, well i wouldnt describe it as a crush but i wouldnt nesicarily say it was love either, I spend all of my spare time thinking about this person and imagining what it would be like if we were together. The only problem is i dont know how she feels. I am female, 21 and spend 4 - 5 hours a week with this other woman i shall refer to as P. We have several fitness classes together and everyone in the class gets on really well together. P however i have noticed recently tends to avoid me when she can. Shell give help to the others and walk around me ~ did i mention shes the instructor?~ I know this probably means that there are no feeling there on her side but i have also managed to kid myself that she could be doing this so as to avoid any feelings she has for me. I find that whenever i look at her she seems to be be looking and smiling directly at me but will not actually approach me during the class. Need to know what others think. Is she hiding her feelings or ????. I dont know the alternative. i wouldnt say she doesnt like me and im pretty sure i have done a good job of hiding ow i feel. What do you think???
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reader, GuyWriter +, writes (9 October 2009):
 I personally think you should try telling her how you feel, maybe stay behind at the end of a session and try asking her if she wants to cassualy go out with you? just as friends to start with and then as the relationship develops you can see where it could take you, Try and become friends to find out more about each other is the advice im givning you, i think form what you have said she has some sort of feelings for you and you obviously like her, so a casual drink could be the start of a beautiful relationship :)
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