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*arasu10
writes: simple question haha what can u do to ease the pain of a heartbreak that you brought upon yourself?what i mean is i treated my ex like crap and he broke up with me because of it. i had plenty of opportunities to stop, but i didnt, and just recently(like 2 months ago)i started to get my crap together, but he cant let go of the past, and it was a little too late when i started to fix everything.so, how do i get over it?and is it possible that he will let go of the past and forgive me and come back?
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reader, catchingbubbles +, writes (9 October 2009):
It can take time to heal and rebuild trust, you may have got yourself together but how is he to know that for sure?Put yourself in his position, would you be trusting you?Thought not, just give him time and keep showing that you have changed, if he loves you he will let you back into his life.If he does not then he never really loved and it is time to move on. Your pain and hurt will get better and you would have learnt a lesson and how not to treat someone.
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reader, ellie:) +, writes (9 October 2009):
it really depends on wat u did!!!!! he might forgive u but want to stay friends... as for the heartbreak it needs time to heal... its like when u get a paper cut it stings a bit and da next day its all better but ur heartbreak may take longer then 1 month some peopel even taks years to heal ,IT WILL HEAL OVER TIME!!!!
HOPE U FEEL BETTER
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