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writes:My problem is little long. Well i am 20,still single. My first luv rejected,from then i never found any girl attractive till last week. I go to college, so there is this new girl in my class . I liked her a lot. Its kinda luv at first sight or something. But i cant take her off my mind since first meet. So,in the second class she started the conversation wid me before class. We talked a few minutes when a friend of mine came and took over the conversation. Well,i am introvert type of guy. When he interfared i kinda stalled, i was nervous. I dont know what to do,i didn talk anymore,kept quite. pls guys help me. What shall i do to make it obvious that i like her? And what can i do about this frend of mine? I really like this girl a lot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2009): Well, their are many things you can do to get her to see that you like her. Start having more conversations. Ask her what she likes dislikes, whats her favorite color, what music she likes. Ask her if maybe she wants to go to a football game or out for coffee. Tell that friend of yours that you like her and he needs to not get in your way. Now remember that can result in two things; a good situation and a bad situation. He could get mad and go and either ask her out or tell her you like her,or he can just say okay i wont. Just do what you think is best, listen to your heart, think of how you fell in love with a girl when you were young. How did you show the other girl that you liked her?
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reader, Sincerely Yours  +, writes (9 October 2009):
 Um, I got a vibe from your question that tells me you're not the kind of guy to date her friend or get laid by a random girl. So, I'll just add that I encourage you to keep your integrity and morals in tact. You'll find that disposing of them will leave you with regret.
~Sy.
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reader, Candleman +, writes (9 October 2009):
 Find out if she has a boyfriend...
If you trust this friend, then perhaps tell him what's up and see if he'll back off and give you room. Other than that, then you just need to speak up. But, I would worry more about getting the key question in. If he talks to her for 10 minutes and you talk to her for 1 minute and are able to ask her out on a date, then that would be all that matters.
Don't waste anytime if you find out she does not have a bf. You don't want to be sitting there at the end of term going through the same emotions. The sooner you act, the sooner you find out if she is interested in you.
Think about it. You'll go 3 months of this agonizing desire, always wondering what she thinks, or you ask one simple question, 5 seconds of your life to find out if your wasting your time or not.
If you can't ask her before class starts, then go up to her after class. I would go up to her after class and whoever she may be talking to say "Excuse me, would you like to go get a cup of coffee?"(or a bite to eat, whatever.) If she's busy at that time, but is interested, then set up the date, get her number.
If she is talking to someone, then this question will more than likely end up dominating the moment.
You have to break your fear of doing this. Conquer this fear. Tell yourself you CAN do it. You WILL do it. Then do it.
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reader, Sincerely Yours +, writes (9 October 2009):
You should simply tell your friend that this is the first girl you've liked in a long time and you'd appreciate if he'd let you be alone with her sometimes so that you can get to know her. I think he'll be happy for you and will therefore do what you ask.
When she is talking, listen very carefuly. Be sure to pick up on hobbies, favourite foods/candy, animals she likes, etc. Once you've captured her likes and dislikes, you can get her a little something. I'm postive that if you bring a gift for her to class, for no apparent reason, she will know that you like her.
It could be as simple as you say "Oh I could really use a snickers bar right now." And wait for her response. She could say "oh i hate snickers" and you say "Oh yeah, so what candy do you like?"
See what I mean?
Of course, there's always the option of telling her you like her and would like to take her somewhere outside of class. But if you can't muster up that courage, i'm just providing you with an alternative option.
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