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writes:Sometime in July or August I had the same type of dream about someone who I thought I was in love with. I had it 3 nights in a row, and the dream was about me trying to get her attention and trying to say that I'm sorry to her, but she'd always walk past me, ignore me, or act mad. Now all of the sudden these things are happening! Almost everyday she seems to be mad at me for something I do. Maybe she's just pretending to get attention from me? She knows that it bugs me when I think I did something to make her mad. Basicaly I want to know, is it possible my dreams were trying to tell me something, or was it because of not seeing her for so long because it was summer break, or what? I'm very curious. Oh, and by the way I am 14. (: Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2009): I am going to cut through the crap of the new age BS you have been fed.
Dreams are nothing more than your subconsious mind trying to work out the stresses of the day.
They really don't have any symbolic meaning, nor can they predict the future nor are they trying to tell you something.
Dreams make no sense at all, they are just random thoughts and images that happen during REM sleep which is a semi deep stage of sleep and it helps you relieve some of the tension you are storing in the body.
That's it, don't make something out of nothing. Live your life in the here and now and be present. Deal with what is actually happening in your daily life during the waking hours and then you won't have so many troubles to sleep on during the night.
Take care.
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reader, OmShantih  +, writes (10 October 2009):
 That was a very mature reply! Im impressed! Good for you, Its very difficult not to have an ego...took me years to understand and control mine, I had to completley change my whole school of thought, all through working with horses actually! it's hard to not let it get the better of you, but you'll figure it out now your aware of it!
All the best
Love and Light
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionoh ok. now i get it..ok ill work on tht
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reader, OmShantih +, writes (10 October 2009):
ok very basically, Its when you think your a better than other people. It can also take other forms such as when you think everything revolves around you or when you make big deal out of things for the attention - all for the egotistical benefits.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOh I still don't know what that is. I'm not good with words like that could you give me a easier definition? :P
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reader, OmShantih +, writes (10 October 2009):
an inflated feeling of pride in your superiority to others
self: your consciousness of your own identity
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLol...whats an ego?
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reader, OmShantih +, writes (10 October 2009):
Your dreams are your subconscious making sense of the the things we experience in our day to day lives. So that fact that you dreamt that this was going to happen, means you knew deep down that the situation was going to take this path,
Did you tell her about the dream?
Why are you saying sorry to her?
Otherwise:
If you are taking into account your dream and shaping your life so that then event in the dream come true, this will be affecting your normal behaviour and reasoning, and she may not be any different really, you might just be reading too much into this.
I agree with Boo22 - you need to ground out your energy and lose the ego, things will because alot more centred and clear.
Love and Light
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reader, boo22 +, writes (10 October 2009):
 Not enough info to tell unfortunately. Had you done something to apologise for and haven't? If thats the case then the dreams are your higher self if you like, telling you what you already know inside.
If thats the case then these dreams are not significant.
I can't imagine that a girl would suddenly just be angry and stand offish for no reason at all, unless she has a personality disorder.
You two are not communicating and your not keeping it real with each other. This is why its awkward between the two of you. Show her some kindness and be the bigger person with her. Speak to her and find out whats wrong. By the way, take your ego out of the equation and you'll be fine.
good luck
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