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How do I make it obvious that I'm interested in him?

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Question - (9 October 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 October 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Me and my friends were at the mall the other day, and they bought me this purple and fluffy tiara to wear. They dared me to go up to this cute guy that and ask him to greet me.

And I did.

I just like ran up to him and his friend and asked if he could greet me. His friend was a tad bit rude to me, but the guy that my friend pointed out was pretty cool with it. He just said "What?" and once I repeated what I said, he greeted me.

He didn't look freaked out or anything. In fact, he looked pretty unruffled. Not unlike his other friend, who looked like he wanted to hit me (I just ignored him, since I wanted to be back with my friends).

Anyway, while we were at the mall, we kept on bumping into them (accidentally, obviously) and found out he was a friend of our other friend's ex.

Every time we saw them, he kept on staring at me, which I figured was normal since, well, you'd stare at the person who accosted you too, right? But then his friend was like talking to him and he'd just STARE and turn his head back to look at me. I just pretended not to notice since, I didn't want to humiliate myself further. *sigh*

Well, we're going to the mall again, and my friend said that HE was going to be there too. But we won't be able to mingle much or anything, since we don't really know each other. And he doesn't go to the same school as me.

Right. So, uhm, I was just wondering what should I do when I see him again to make it obvious that I'm interested without making myself look desperate. (He probably thinks of me as a creep after what I did.)

And does him staring a good sign? Cause my other friends are like wayy hot (according to our guy friends at least) while I'm just ... adorable.

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A male reader, Half_spoken_soul Bangladesh +, writes (9 October 2009):

Just talk to him, and he ll probably figure out you re interested if u ll show a little interest . And treat him a lil different than your frenz ,of course in a good way

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