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writes:My boyfriend and i just broke up yesterday. He says that he cant so the things that a boyfriend should do to make me happy right now. He rants about how he hates his job and how he wants to quit, and stresses about school constantly. He says he doesnt want to hurt me, he truly thinks and feels this is the best thing for us now, because "we dont know what might happen in the future", he says. He thinks that if we continue the relationship i'll end up cheating on him or losing my feelings. i dont want to lose him, and cant make him stay. I'd really appreciate some advice.im extremely torn and confused.
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (9 October 2009):
 I'm sorry hon but he broke up with you because of his insecurities. I wouldn't be shocked if after a while he came back to you saying he made a mistake and wants you back. Of course then he would break up with you again when his insecurities made him nervous again.
He is not ready to be in a relationship now and if he wants you back you should not go back with him for I am sure he will break your heart again. Maybe in future if he changes but for now concentrate on healing and getting over him.
Good Luck!
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