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writes:Yeah so had this real good friend of mine for 4 years and we have always shown affection to one another, yet never have done anything about it. We are at the stage of our friendship where we are both real comfortable with each other and tell each other everything. We both always had little crushes on one another as well but once again, either didn't want to ruin the friendship or make a bad turn for something that we thought would never work out.I persued my lifelong dream of joining my job in the military just in the last 7 months and have not been home in that time at all. My best friends always used to say me and her would be the best couple and joked about how her real feelings would come out for me once I had been away from home for a long time. Now I only think that the joke might be coming to life.we both just recently came out of really really bad relationships and we are both single once again. She was having a hard time getting over it and crying over the phone to me and I was contacting her (like old times) nearly every day as she really wasn't going down too well with it. I was being a friend.just real recently, she has started sending me more messages and showing more affection to me telling me in blank drunken messages that she misses me over and over again. I didn't take real notice of this and thought that it was just her being, well, drunk and friendly! but just recently on a social networking site, said this in her status.."Sometimes when life is a complete mess and you feel lost is when things make the most sense :)"Just thought I was over analyzing and shot it off. Then she started talking to me through messages the next day. I started joking if she met any boys recently and just talking about how I almost died last weekend in a vehicle accident. she responded with..."Haha no boys for me at the moment... one would have to b pretty special to catch my eye :) you are too young and *cute* (i hate being called cute, she knows this) to be in a coffin :):)"So then we started teasing each other just like old times and even the same old teasing that we did back in the day. It's been two days and haven't spoken to her. Don't want to come on strong at all and still want to be a friend. The good thing is I am moving back down home with my military posting for 4 years in December and she knows this too. Should I act on this as this has been a girl I really liked for years? and for once, I really don't know how to go about it hey. Do you think she is sharing similar feelings as to what I am having right now as well?long question but a real true question to answer :) Can't wait until I get some feedback, I'll do so myself.
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reader, FrequentFlyer +, writes (10 October 2009):
FrequentFlyer is verified as being by the original poster of the question Ha ha, thanks but I think it gets a little bit more complicated than that. Cheers for the reply.
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reader, wilson12  +, writes (9 October 2009):
she is apparently showing affection for u. i would say she is feeling the same. ask her on a date, go out with her cause chances r she will want to love you.us
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