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male
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30-35,
*treme
writes:Hi everybody i'm 19 now and i had sex 5 times till now with 3 different girls although i never tried to force any girl but being very much attractive i have few girlfrnds but do not date with them but every boy knows we can't deny if a girl proposes for sex.Well all the 5 sex i had were unprotected and i feel shy in buying condoms,and also i fear if my mom finds them out in my purse... This is a serious problem,i know abt the transfer of STD'S due to unprotected sex but i don't know what to do...? I'm looking for a stable partner but i haven't find anyone till now....plz plz help me..... I'll appreciate suggestion from girls also....thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2009): If you are worried about oral sex, and you should be because many STD's can be contracted through oral sex, you should be tested and so should your partner. Once you know you are both clean, and you are both only having sex with each other, you will be fine. If you are looking for some type of protection, like a condom... there are dental dams that you can use for protected oral sex. Most people I know do not use them, but if you are looking to protect yourself, this is the way to go.
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female
reader, HonningKanin  +, writes (9 October 2009):
 Genital wart.
You can get that from oral, anal and sex. Get condoms.
Herpes
You can get them from oral and sex. Get condoms.
AIDS
You can get them from oral, anal and sex. Need I say the obvious?
HonningKanin
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2009): Get the condoms mateeeeeee.. Protect your self.. and other gals..about oral sex i am not sure but have you could catch something please check the internet or a doctthank
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2009): Well you could always try only having sex with someone whose sexual history you know. STDs can be transferred through bodily fluids such as semen.With any new partner its a good idea for both of ye to be checked for STDS, if you haven't been then now might be a good time.I can't stress this enough, you do not want to get an STD.
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reader, Xtreme +, writes (9 October 2009):
Xtreme is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks everybody for reponse and i'll buy condoms but what abt oral sex i hav heard that oral sex like licking vagina and anus also leads to transfer of STD'S so i want some other suggestion plz...
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2009): Dude if you mature enough to be having sex then go and buy yourself some condoms.
Theyll protect you against many many things.
If you cant work up that courage then you shouldnt be having sex
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2009): Its entirely upto you to choose whether you would risk being embarrassed if mommy finds a condom in your purse or you would risk getting AIDS or another STD.
Entirely your choice.
Who knows once she finds a condom in your purse she'll stop looking through your things.
How will you have a stable partner if you cannot say 'no' to sex to other people? What if you fall in love with someone who does not want to sleep with you on the first or 15th date?
Grow up.
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female
reader, Justified  +, writes (9 October 2009):
 Buddy You need to buy condoms not only are there STD's but there is somethings AIDS and unwanted children. Now I think you mom would be upset if you had children. At least she knows you are protecting yourself. Be responsable with the condoms instead of have kids. Just go in the store and buy condoms and keeping them in your wallet is a bad idea
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female
reader, karasu10 +, writes (9 October 2009):
 its perfectly normal to get a little shy when you need to buy condoms. i went through that at some point. it's a good thing that you understand the risks of not using protection. next time you decide to get intimate with another girl, why not ask her if she can go buy some condoms, or you can go with the girl so you can see that its not so bad. or go to the store with a friend so you feel a little more comfortable. dont worry too much about how your mom will react in finding them. just explain to her that you're being safe. which is the smart thing to do. i hope i have helped. good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2009): buying condoms is not as traumatic as people think. the clerks in the stores never even think twice about it. have confidence and just act like it's no big deal. another suggestion would be to buy other things at the same time so it's not so obvious that your getting them. a final suggestion would be to order them online and have them mailed to you either at your house or maybe another address so you wouldn't have to explain to your mom. as far as your mom goes hopefully if she does find them she'll be happy that you are being smart and using protection.
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