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*urt4life
writes:Sometimes we live our lives base in ilusion, expecting thing or people to get better, but at the end nothing changes.....The sad story is that i fall in love with the wrong person, a man who has done evrything in his hand to make me believe i am nothing, that i am just a sex toy he uses when he needs. In 3 sad long years of my life, he is still thre making me believe that is all my fault, that i am the bad person in this relationship. I can't take it anymore, i have done everything possible to make it work, by trying to faithful, support him, care about him, and WHAT HE LOVE BEST, SEX FROM ME, AS MUCH AS HE PLEASED.....I can take his insult abuse anymore, he contatly mentioning the girl he has sleep with while we was together, worse thing he said the are all better than me, but i have never seen them for him like i have, or care about him, all this care have their man, and happy with them, while all i have done is loose my time in a man, who don't care about me...........He is 43, I am only 23.... i want to be happy and make my son happy, be a better person, and placed him in my past forever...............What will you do in this situation, i don't want to put a restriction order again him, but he is pushing me thre, i don't feel safe any longer around him, but i don't want to hurt my child by pushing his daddy away...
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reader, rcn +, writes (14 March 2009):
 I agree with the other poster. You need to get out of there. You know a relationship can't be one sided, and it seems as if he uses you for what he wants you for. How long did you date before living together? What did you know about his intentions before taking the relationship further? How long before getting pregnant?
It doesn't seem as if he ever had the intention of being a good partner for you. It also looks as if you rushed right past the part of getting to know him, and combined getting to know each other, with being a full family.
Finding a truly committed partner is not a rushed activity. Take your time, really get to know someone, become familiar with warning signs, then if everything is progressing in the right direction, take the next step.
Your focus needs to be on your son. "No protection order?" Not if your son may be affected. You have two lives to protect and not just one. Don't choose to not do something, allowing a door of possible harm to your son open. Protection orders can be temporary, but harm to you, your son or both, could be permanent.
I hope you get to live safe, and have your son in a positive environment for his growth.
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