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Torn between my current boyfriend and ex-boyfriend.

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Question - (14 March 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 March 2009)
A female Ireland age 30-35, *corpio123 writes:

Hi everyone,

Im so confused at the minute. I was with my ex for 5 months and since then Ive been with my current boyfriend for 16 months. I love him very very much but every day now I find myself thinking about my ex more and more. I would never cheat on my boyfriend by the way.

It's just im only 15 so sometimes I think I shouldn't be tied down to one person, but at the same time because I've been with my boyfriend so long it would be hard to break up all over something that might not even work.

I should mention my ex wasn't a very good boyfriend, whereas my current boyfriend is everything the 'perfect boyfriend' would be.

What should I do? Just force myself to forget my ex?

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A female reader, iSmil3y United States +, writes (15 March 2009):

I think you should try your hardest to get over your ex. You might still have feelings for him but if he treated you bad like you said, and your current boyfriend is the "perfect" guy in your eyes, I'd stay with him because if you would break up with him and tried to get back with your ex, chances are, you'd end up heartbroken and end up with no boyfriend.

Of course your not going to get over your ex in one day so try to think of the good times with you and your boyfriend now and try getting over him, little by little. It might be hard, but it'd be worth it, especially if you love your boyfriend now,

You shouldn't break up with him for your ex boyfriend.

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