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writes:I just got into a relationship with this guy named Josh. He's so sweet, and I really like him. We'd just gotten together on March 10th. (just a few days ago)Tonight I went over to his house for the first time. We played with his dog for a while, then I went up to his room. We watched Scrubs, then we tried to blow up a condom and make a balloon animal. lol. After that we started making out, we really got into it. I pulled back and asked him "Do you think we should have sex?" He asked me twice "Are you sure?" I nodded and he took out a condom and unzipped his pants. This was the first time I'd ever seen a penis (not counting porn or babies). I just stared at it for a while. He asked me again. "Are you sure?" I didn't know what to say. He said. "Not the right time or is it me?" I sighed. "Not the right time."Of course it wasn't the right time. We'd just gotten together three days ago! He understood, and was really cool about it. We ended up just watching more Scrubs and then watched the movie Juno. He was kind of embarassed that he showed me his dick. I was kind of embarassed too because I just sat there on his bed like an idiot staring at his member.We decided to wait until the time was right and just get to know each other for now. We're both virgins and we want our first time to be special. I guess I just got caught up in a moment. But i still wonder what would've happened if I went through with it and lost my virginity?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYesterday he and I talked things over, and surprisingly we both were comfortable with doing that again but just not having sex. We want to wait.
But yesterday we had oral sex. He fingered me, making me orgasm twice. I gave him a blowjob, making him cum twice. It was nice. We felt that we were ready. We both can't wait to do it again.
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reader, Good Girl +, writes (14 March 2009):
 That was a really cute story. Of course you want to wait because you will always remember the first time. He sounds nice though. Just take it slow and enjoy it. When it happens, it will be the right time, as long as you are doing it because you really, REALLY, really want to.
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reader, bd2009 +, writes (14 March 2009):
you did the right thing. sex is better when it is with someone that you love and loves you back. you want to think back in the future and consider it a mistake?
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reader, SJ_ninety +, writes (14 March 2009):
 I applaud you for holding back and I applaud him for being patient and understanding enough to accept your answer because he could've easily been a prick and pressured you into it resulting in you possibly getting pregnant. And that might make him "run away"; which would be the biggest dick move on his part. But I'm pretty sure he isn't like that considering what you say in your question.
Now I personally know a couple who had sex numerous times before they even started dating and they've been together for over two years now! If right now isn't the right time, then it is NOT the right time. Sound advice I received from my cousin whom is nine years my senior: You will know you are ready when you stop questioning it. Have fun and use protection! =]
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (14 March 2009):
 U did the right thing. If it didn't. Feel right you have 2 trust your instincts.
Take it super slow. Get to know him more so that you are super
Comfortable with him. It he's the right one to lose it to then he will stick
Around. Don't doubt yourself.
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