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writes:Soo.My boyfriend and I dated for 10Months. We were usually a really happy couple everyone always said how cute we were. We would call eachother in the morning and hang out till late at night, everyday.whenever we got in a fight and i would think about breaking up he would cry and say how much he loves me.. wants to be with me ect. But, one day i went to the gym with his brothers Ex girlfriend that i was friends with befor they EVER met. plus his brother is seeing my bestfriend.. that i hooked him up with. so i didn't see the big deal with going to the gym. But my boyfriend did and dumped me because of it.. say it was disrespectful. I didn't see how it was disrespectful and pulled the stubuurn move and just didn't talk to him either, and agreed to the break up. A week and 3 days later he found a new girl. and i made out with him best friend. I didn't know about him in this girl yet, so when i saw him the day after i made out with his friend i talked to my ex saying how sorry i was and want him back, and that i love him so much..i spilled my heart out for a good 10-20mins. then he just replied with "No, i met a girl, you wont trust me either" then i walked away but he chased me down and we talked and i asked him so many times if him and her just kissed, and he said ya thats it and we were both going to make this work, so everyday after school he would hug me and kiss me and tell me he would call me later tonight, i always asked him after school if he wanted to hang out and he would always say no im hanging out with my buddies. so he would call me everynight around 9ish and id always ask " did you talk to that girl today" ..and hed always get mad and say know you know that babe it's you that i want,if i had feelings for her i would be talking to her. anywas i felt that as the days went on i could feel him slipping away from me even more, plus he was making up all these stupid rules for me like a list of people i couldnt talk too in order to make it work. And i agreed i wouldnt, because i just wanted him SO bad. And even thought i was giving it my all i could feel him slipping away even more. So i decided im not going to keep trying if he just keeps treating me crappy and isn't putting in his effort, so i talked to this girl that he "met" and he said he wasn't talking too. And it turns out he wasn't hanging out with his buddies after school he was at her house, or she was at his. Also not even just that but they did sexual things, that till this day he still wont admit it.Also the day i was talking to that girl he called at around 11pm to say goodnight and that he loves me. Then he called her right after and said "do you want to come over" so i called back saying "so, for sure your going to bed, and he replied with ya but i have to go put grocerys away first" Its 11 at night and you have to put grocerys away?! and hung up on me and left the phone off the hook.when he came to school the next day i was talking to everyone he told me not too, and he got all pissed because i said i was done with trying and everything. He started yelling at me infront of everyone saying im jealus and just trying to reck things with him and that girl he met.And then he called me the other day saying he wanted to leave it on a mature note, and i agreed. and then he told me it was all my fault and hung up.i went to a pre-drinking party last night and he just happend to show up with two girls that i really dislike and then we went to the same party. He saw me talking to this one guy and told me to stop for some stupid reason and was yelling at me, the guy i was talking to and his friend told him to chill out. i still have alot of feelings for him and want to be with him, but i dont know hwo to make it work..plus when i first found out about him and this girl i called his house constantly. and at school i would always try and talk to him.. and i think that's what pulled him away.what should i do?
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reader, mimisoph3  +, writes (14 March 2009):
 first of all why would u everr ever ever want to be wit someone that treats u like shit and doesnt want u??? if u go back to him and keep trying u will ALWAYs get hurt and u will never move on..u gotta move on his not right for u if he loved u he wouldnt do that to u...and if he loved u he wouldnt be saying who u should and shouldnt be talking to that just means he will always controll u no matter wat...MOVE ON!!!
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