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writes:I work as a contractor in an airbase. 2 years ago I became friends with a GI that left after wards, been in touch since. Each time the communications are more often and familiar.The thing is he sent me a picture of him in his honor guard uniform, so I have it on my cell phone. This other GI that works in the same office and came 2 months ago, is very friendly but more like a player type, he's 6 yrs younger than me. He saw my cell and the picture of my friend-crush.He became very curious about who he is, but I didn't tell, I just said I keep my secrets just like he does (he has a GF but won't say). Why are men nosy and why other guys don't even like for us to mention other guys, like my crush he change subject every time I talk about other guys?Why they act like that?The fun part is that now this other guy mentions my "lover boy" every time he can like teasing me!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (14 March 2009):
Hello again.
He's not being nosey, you are just proving a challenge to get into bed.
If you went out and slept with him then he would no longer give a toss about the guy on your phone, or anything else about you.
The guy you have a crush on probably has a crush on you - I mean you've been on here HOW many times talking about how you keep messing eachother about? - so he is jealous when you talk about other guys.
The guy you are flirting with sounds like the kind of guy who's only interested when you are talking about him, and therefore doesn't really want to hear anything about anyone else.
As I think you've been told before. Get it together with your crush and send anyone else packing rather than flirting with them.
Good Luck!! xx
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