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writes:hi well im 15 and just broke up with my gf well it was a mutual break up. we broke up cause we were fightin about stupid stuff and she was doun stupid stuff like drinking and smokin alot and i just dont wanna deal with that and she doesnt want to have to deal with me. so my question is how do i get over her?? she was my first real gf and my first love. man i loved that girl with all my heart (still do) i gave up everything for her. i think about her all day everyday. i cant get her off my mind. i dream about her all the time and how we were great together. i see her almost every day. all my friends say stuff about her and i. all my teachers talk about her and i. and my family talks about her and i also. how do i get over her?????? i really need advice from anyone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009): look, the best thing to do is to try your best to move on. its very difficult and hard i know as my girlfriend just broke up with me. it broke my heart but my friends were always supportive and that's what you need to be. strong. think of it as just a phase your going through and don't let her be the better of you. your better than that. i hope this helps x
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (14 March 2009):
 You just have to give it time there is no quick fix.
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reader, Good Girl +, writes (14 March 2009):
 Maybe you should just try to be her friend for awhile. If she is doing all that stuff with her friends, you could help to steady her a bit. Remember though, you are not responsible for her actions. Just tell her you are there for her to talk to. Really commit the word friendship to your mind. You can still be a part of her life and if you truly love her that will be enough for now. Maybe the things she's doing are just a phase and as you learn to communicate in a friendship, the fighting won't be so much of a problem. If you are meant to get over her the feelings will eventually fade. Just remember to respect yourself, keep your head high and good things will come your way.
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