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Why did he move so close to me?

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Question - (14 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 March 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

hi i had a relationship for 6 months, it is now over due to him stealing from my account, i have pressed charges, and he is saying he had full access to my money as and when he wanted, i used to give him the card to take the odd 10 pound out but not the amount he took, nearly 600 pound and wasted it on gambling. it is now going to court, i feel scared.

the question i want to know is this man is now in a psychiatric hospital just down the road from where i live, he doesn't live near me he lives over an hours drive away.

I have also found out he has applied for housing in the same village, why would he want to live near me when i only knew him 5 months.

the court case in going to be messy and i believe he has 10 charges against him for what he did. can anyone understand this mans reasons

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2009):

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yes i was silly, very silly, but he was manipulative and said i didnt trust him, his money went in my account, as he was bad with money, it was for me to use onhis food etc rent. but he did steal twice before and admitted to me he watched me as i used my card, i forgave him after his suicide attempt to win me back, looking back i feel i was conned and vulnerable.

yes he has had mental health in past, due to alcohol problems his parents have told me this since, and he also stole from his parents on several occasions and took his parents jewellery to sell for beer money.

he also took my car that night, while banned and did time last year for doing same to his dad. i reported him for that too.

i just feel im in a mess, and gave someone my heart and this is what he did.

i stil have no idea why he is hospital locally to me and looking for housing here, when his family ive so far away, he is currently bailed to their address.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2009):

Gal this mans sounds rough! Just forget about him ok! he's a total Idiot for gambaling, Face it it's time to move on!

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