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writes: I really like this guy. He is like my best guy friend and I always help him with his relationship problems. He was just getting over this one girl and people started to think he would ask me out. But now he is going out with a girl a year younger and I really, really like him!!!!!!! I want to tell him I like him but don't want to ruin the friendship! What do I do???!!! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, miss.cinderella +, writes (15 March 2009):
Ok well, just so you know your not alone because i went through the exact same situation just recently. And what happened to me after i told him was, well lets just say it turned out that he was a better guy when we were friends than when we were together. And sometimes that just happens,now if you tell him it could be great,but try to not get your hopes up.Sometimes things work out & other times they dont.Thats love,thats life. I know this sounds cheezy but if its meant to be then it will be. I promise.
Now,if you realy like this guy it would be better for you to tell him & finaly know if something could have happened with you two,then not tell him at all.Cause if you dont...u'll always wonder,ya know?
Give it a shot. Take a chance.
And if it doesnt work the way you wanted it to,just know that its ok & theres someone out there for you & you'll find him. Good Luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2009): you should be honest tell him how you feel but also ask him how he feels and tell him if he dosent feel the same that its okay and that you'd rather be his friend than nothing at all...
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2009): i have basicly the same problem too :S but he broke up with his gf becuase he was always flirting with me then evryone thought he ws gunna ask me out nd they got back together a few days later.
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