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writes:I had this male mate i was really close to and we slept together which was a huge mistake as we now both hate each other coz of things that have been said. Anyway i found out how much of an idiot he actually is and i need to forget about him but i seem to not be able to and i really want to forget and move on. How can i do this? Ive deleted everything i have that allows me to contact him but the main problem is at school coz hes in some of my lessons, i just cant forget about him just like that even though i want to. People have said to just forget about him, but its not as easy as that, they have no idea how hard im finding it to try and forget about him...please help...
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2009): Your going through a difficult stage. Just remember that there are plenty of other people out there for you. Yes, getting over someone takes time, but eventually you will move on, trust me. If he's in the same lessons as you it will be hard. Keep thinking of all the bad things about him, you say he's an idiot. Why fall for an idiot? you can do better. Find someone that will treat you right.
i hope ive been a help. xxxx
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (14 March 2009):
 You just have to put up with it for now, over time you will get over him, but there is no magical switch that stops your feelings towards people.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2009): I know this isn't what you want to hear.... but it will take time. When you're close to someone like that, it is never easy to let them go, even when they make you angry, and even if you know they haven't treated you right.
The fact that you are forced to see him almost daily in your classes is going to make it twice as difficult for you to forget him. I think you friends want to help, but they don't know what to say.
I'll tell you something my mother once said to me, about bad friends and these types of situations.... she said, "you wouldn't keep a snake in your pocket, would you, and let it keep biting you? 'cause that's what you're doing if you keep this person in your life."
Good luck to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2009): I am not sure if you are saying you can't forget because you still care.If you still care then the best thing to do is not to try so hard to forget him. You will in time.If you have to be around him, this will be even harder and longer. Somehow time does heal all.hope this helps.
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