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*pongebob21
writes:I live in the US. My GF of 17 months might be pregnant, we had intercourse 7 days ago today. she is worried cause her period was suppose to happen and it hasnt yet. I did use a condom with spermicidial lube..but after i came, i kept going. and i think a little of my come might have slipped out the bottom of the condom. Could she get pregnant because if this?ive looked for "planned parenthood" organizations around here and the nearest one is 50 miles away.im scared she is scared. i need to know how much of a chance that she is pregnant. she is only a couple of days late in her period but we are both scared.i dont want to talk to my parent(my mom) or hers cause both out fathers live out of state. and i cant just walk into my local pharmacy cause my town is only has a population of 800 and thats not alot cause eveyone knows everyone. i need help on what to do right now pls p.s. im horrible at grammer as you probaly found oujt
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reader, Ricky1989  +, writes (14 March 2009):
I wouldn't stress for another couple of days - loads of things can effect periods including stress and even diet. wait a couple more and if it still hasnt then go get a test
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reader, Olivia(Y). +, writes (14 March 2009):
 Your girlfriend could be pregnant.
I know people may know everyone in your community but you do need to go and get her a pregancy test. Get her to do one then do another one 48 hours later to see if the results are the same.
If she is pregnant you need to get her to see a doctor. Don't be scared, they have to keep everything confidental as it is now a law. Doctors see this all the time, if you are over 16 you are legal to have sex.
Sometimes if you are stressed it can delay your period. Try and do things with you girlfriend to relax her. Just take her out and have a day to yourself.
Good luck
Livia
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reader, Dalmatian +, writes (14 March 2009):
Yes,she may be pregnant. You must get a pregnancy test
so you know for sure. If she is pregnant congratulations!
You have created a new human being a child. Tell your
parents and get prenatal care. If you are not employeed
find a job and start paying for the doctor visits and
saving for the hospital bill. Set up a budget so you
know how much clothes, baby food, doctor visits, and
medical insurance will cost you each month. It is not
cheap but just holding your son or daughter you will realize
all the effort and cost was worth it.
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (14 March 2009):
 its probably too early. RELAX she is stressing out and this can cause her period to be delayed and if she doesnt relax she can even miss it completely. if you say that some of your cum got out then yes there is a chance. why dont you guys go to a pharmacy or gas station and buy a pregnancy rest. you have to realize that if you want to have sex you need to deal with stuff like this...good luck to you both:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2009): do nothing til you know the facts. if y'all are not pregnant, be thankful you dodged that bullet. if she is, y'all have a decision to make. please remember...just because abortions are legal, it doesn't mean that all women are able to have one, for moral reasons. I'm so glad I never had to make the choice. but, while your opinion will certainly matter, it is her decision ultimately. i pray she's not because you can't be ready at such a young age. just be supportive, no blame for either of you, and maybe she right be ready for the pill if you are such a stud - still wear a condom though! okay? good luck, and hope you find peace in your heart, whatever the outcome.
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reader, SJ_ninety +, writes (14 March 2009):
 First of all, it's impossible to know if a girl/woman is pregnant within a seven-day span. Secondly, a girl's menstrual cycle usually fluctuates in the days she starts, the pain of the cramps, even the amount of flow she gets for the first few years of her period. Stress levels are also a huge indicator of when she gets her period. If it continues to be late, I suggest you guys get a home-pregnancy test. Not much else you can do until you know. If she is, you discuss your options; if she isn't, you can finally take a breath of relief. Good luck! =]
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