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writes:Ok so me and my boyfriend were together 10 months. Then out of nowhere he says he wants a break. We havent been argueing or anything. So it was a huge shock to me. Things were going really good i was happy, And he seemed to really happy. When he asked for this break i instantly started to cry. He says he loves me but there are some feelings missing and he thinks that a break would bring these feelings back and would show him how much he loves me. I asked how long of a break he wanted and he said he didnt know. Well its been almost 2 months since this happened and im so confused. I dont know if he is ever gonna come back to me. At first we didnt see each other at all but we still talked all the time. Then we didnt talk at all for about a week. And now were talking quite a bit and seeing each other once in awhile. He still tells me he loves me everytime we talk but i dont know if he really does. I mean if you love someone why would you not want to be with them? I just dont know what to do. I want to wait for him as long as i have to because i love him with all my heart. But people tell me i need to move on and forget him. But i cant forget him. He's all i think about. And im over the crying for him phase but it still hurts like hell. And the other night i was having some problems so he came and picked me up and we stayed the night together. He held me all night long and he was so sweet to me, kissing me and loving me. And i even woke up to him looking at me. But i dont know if that was just an act to get some. If you know what i mean. But it didnt seem like that but im so confused about everything so i dont really know. I just need some advice on what to do. And if he's ever gonna come back to me?
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reader, AuntieSophiex  +, writes (14 March 2009):
 Hello. I think i have a suggestion to your problem.
He sounds like he needs some time to think about his relationship. He wants some time apart, to think about whats going to happen in the future maybe. Have you told him how you feel? If not, it would be good to ask him how long you would be apart and if he's ever going to get back with you.
IF he's kissing you & telling you he still loves you, he does. If he was using you, he wouldn't be passionate at all, and wouldn't be as romantic as he is sounding. Talk to a friend or family about this, maybe they have had experience of this problem, but mainly, talk to him about it. Hope everything works out, let me know!
Auntie Sophie xx
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