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writes: Hi Cupids!Started seeing a guy about a month ago and we have had several lovely dates and get on really well. He phoned me last 2 nights ago and said he wanted to see me - I am meeting him tomorrow again. Just wandering.. are guys and girls really that different? I want to text him all the time, just to see how he is and everything and as I have not spoken to him since Thursday night, Im itching to but I dont want to see overly keen. I sent him a message yesterday but he didnt reply, it didnt need a reply tho as I was only saying have a nice day.... Should I just relax and assume we are still seeing each other or if he was really liking me would he be texting and phoning everyday??
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2009): How different are we? We only each try to put our overt love patterns in check. I don't know if men do it better, or women. But a lady is presumably allowed to share more of her thoughts.
I usually texted my gf about how much I loved her, and she didnt do as much. But when it came to real life crisis, she was better with sharing her thoughts early to avert a problem.
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (14 March 2009):
 Girls and guys are very different, I can't stand texting all the time, there are fiddly buttons and you have to stop what you are doing and as soon as you reply to a text you get another one! After my wife has sent me 3 texts in a row I assume she is bored at work and will just call her to get the conversation moving.
Texting is great for sending a short efficient message like "hello mate we are meeting here at 7", but for sending 100 "I love you" notes in a space of an hour is just annoying.
I know girls enjoy getting lots and lots of messages all day, but I hate to say this but if we're not with you we tend not to sit with our mobile phones pinning but will be out with our mates talking shop or using our time to wipe out a breed of alien life form on our Xbox, because if we are seeing you we are not allowed to talk about work with our mates or play violent games on the Xbox.
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reader, SlackersACE1  +, writes (14 March 2009):
Tough call sis. Sounds like this bruddah could very well be thinking the same thing that you are right now. After all, if you enjoy spending time together and he likes you, he's probably just a little nervous of sounding too clingy. Give the bloke a little time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2009): its hard cos i was in the same situation a month ago!and he told me he hated txting and could neva b bothered but wen i was with him and he got a txt he would reply straight away! wen we met up we really clicked and got on well but like u he would neva hardly txt!its a hard 1 x
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