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*tj
writes:Here's what she does:I sit next to her and she always puts her feet very close to mine, so much it makes me uncomfortable. She doesn't do it to others. Once, she had her leg touching mine, noticeably. I moved away, but put it back touching again and she didn't care. She teases me when I act tough and repeats stuff I say. I caught her staring ONCE. Also, I forget my book to class often so I can share w/her. Once I was sharing w/a friend and she asked me to share with her instead.She paid for my library fee. Once she put her open hand on my leg by accident and said "oh my god, i'm sorry!" all loud/nervous. She was trying to catch something but...She's so pretty AND a great person, I'm an average, funny guy who acts dumb sometimes..she's outta my league, honestly.Another day I turned suddenly and her eyes darted all over the place. I looked back twice and we met eyes again. She began teasing me later outside and was walking by me when here friends were far in front. We haven't had a real convo. Hard to talk to her! We both talk a lot, but we get shy when we're by each other. Once, she did something funny but no one laughed so I did and she started laughing too.My ex has been on my mind 24/7 until this girl came around. Should I ask her out? Bless anybody who reads this!
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reader, Libra1963  +, writes (28 December 2009):
 Glad you have come to a decision. Good luck with it and I wish you all the best. Let us know how things progress.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (28 December 2009):
 yesssssssss! :)
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reader, btj +, writes (28 December 2009):
btj is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYou guys got me thinking now lol. She's kinda on the innocent side. My friends say she's not hot at all but pretty (?). I'll just ask her out when we get back from break. Thanks for your time!
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reader, fishdish +, writes (27 December 2009):
I say go for it, it'll give you a chance/boost to help you move on from your ex and on with your life, and all the eye stuff just seems like nervous liking you or something, i don't really see the class clown thing at all! I think you find some chemistry there and she's been indicating possible interest, so I say it's definitely worth pursuing. go out for drinks and take it from there, eh? :)
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reader, Jodie_Kinsz  +, writes (27 December 2009):
 I suppose it would, but if shes flirtatious with you, what if you're only seeing that side of her, and she hasn't got other boys on the side, if shes an attractive girl?
I wouldn't want a relationship with someone who was that open with someone she wasn't in a relationship with.
But the choice is in your hands - not mine.
Jodie, x
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reader, btj +, writes (27 December 2009):
btj is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for answering. Would it change things if I said she's not a flirty girl at all?
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reader, btj +, writes (27 December 2009):
btj is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for answering. Would it change things if I said she is not a flirty girl at all?
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reader, Jodie_Kinsz +, writes (27 December 2009):
I think all this girl is looking for in you is a bit of fun, try not to take her seriously.
She sounds like a nice girl, that yes is probably crushing on you, but I wouldn't go for her, if she's like this with you now, she could be with another boy if you get with her, because once a girl gets stuck with a flirtatious habit, it doesn't leave to quickly or easily.
Jodie, x
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reader, taylor8790 +, writes (27 December 2009):
 I think you should go for it. theres no harm in trying. good luck :)
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reader, Libra1963 +, writes (27 December 2009):
This girl is clearly having fun with you. dont take her seriously. She sounds like the class clown and in need of attention. she has probably picked up that you like her. She is clearly making a mockery out of your feelings by winding you up.
Move away from her and do not allow her to distract you any more. By all means keep her as a friend but believe me she will do this with other boys as well. She gets great pleasure knowing that guys find her HOT!
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