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51-59,
*amtohot
writes:I've known this guy for three weeks we were together for two weeks solid and then I left to go home. he said he would call me. he didn't and just left for his sister in min but he didn't say he was leaving but since he's been gone I've text him alot and I've only got 2 responses he said there was no reception and he'd call when he came back in town,b ut I know for a fact that he was on the system. so why wouldn't text me when he was clearly in town? We were having a great time those two weeks. what went wrong and now i am hurt and upset. I thought he cared. Does this mean I was wrong about everything I thought was real?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2009): he probalbly got what he wanted if you gave it wrong thing to do
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reader, meg2989 +, writes (26 December 2009):
 Shania is completely 100% right. But keep in mind that its not your fault. If he was still interested he'd contact you by now. He pretty much led you on, thank god it was only for two weeks. You're worth more than that, you'll find a good man that will treat you right.
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reader, shania  +, writes (26 December 2009):
 This fella is not interested anymore, you saw each other for a couple of weeks and that was that for him.If he was that "in to you" he would of contacted you, either by calling you on the phone or texting you, no man is too busy to do a simple text message, and the signal thing i dont buy...thats a cop out.He could of used a pay phone to call you but he didn't.So if i was you i would stop all contact with him...dont text him...stop chasing him, your worth more then that...You didn't do anything wrong, he just had second thoughts.That was his problem, not yours.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2009): You have known this man for three short weeks, how real could things be? Why were you together for the first two weeks solid? Don't you think that is sort of desperate behavior? He probably needed to come up for air and take a break from you and you text-ed him nonstop and he is either ignoring you (my guess) or he is busy or doesn't have network availability.I think you would be best just to stop contacting him all together and let him make the next moves. In fact if he continues to see you, I would expect him to take you out and spend some money on you and to make all the overtures for contact and future dates until you think you have something "real" as in an exclusive relationship, otherwise you are just dating him or are friends with benefits not sure which applies to your situation.
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