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age
36-40,
*arah_87_
writes:hi I don't know if this guy is player or he is genuine? should I drop him?when I decided to move away I started a casual relationship with him because I was going away for good and wont have to deal with it. I know he was sleeping with someone else at the time as well but I didn't care, well pretended too. I was starting to liking but I never showed it. When I moved I didn't expect to talk to him again, but he called and msged me on a weekly basis and for over half a year it was jus general stuff like "how have i been". when went back for a holiday I told him I didn't want to see him, but he still continued to msg me and I would just say I was busy all the time catching up with friends. Eventually I met up with him and we talked for hours and that was all. I saw him again and I guess I gave into it all, It felt different to the past really passionate but I don't know if it's my mind playing tricks because I am starting to fall for himI really don't know if he is playing games with me or if it's genuine? I keep getting mixed responses because a lot of people are sayin he wouldn't keep contacting you knowing your so far away if i didnt mean anything.i'm ready to just cut all ties to save the pain in the future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2009): yeah I know, but I'm actually just over games. If a guy really likes me he likes me he'll come out and make it clear, no need for games. I don't sleep around and he knows that, and he knows that I have never done the whole casual thing before, it was never the plan to have kept in contact. So I have come to the conclusion that it's not worth the worry. I have met great guys who will do anything for me, and I will meet.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (26 December 2009):
I think you have to ask him. That's the only way to be sure.
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