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I think there's an attraction between us, do I say something?

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Question - (26 December 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 December 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *uddy18 writes:

So I need some advice for two people Me and My Friend. Okay We known each other for years and have gotten really close to each other... MY Love life has been simple a few Girlfriend you know school love.. But Hes the first guy that I'm really attracted to and hes been that guy that girls fall for.. He walks down the Street and girls turn around and say things back like .. Hay sexy and stuff.. As an Orientation i would say Im Bi leaning to gay more then straight and for him I would say Straight Leaning to Bi.

We have had our moments you know that normal friend woudnt do... So that brings alot onto the light. We public'ly mess around and say things like all we did this an all we love each other but people just see it as two close friend jusy horsing around. But Me and him know theres somtthing else between us..He has a girlfriend right now and I know her very good.. But when its just us two we laugh an have fun an he's confused about it all... We're comfortable with each other but I don't know what to do? I spend everyday with him... Hours of doing notthing.. I can't just ignore it..I want to spend time with him an he aways wants me to be with him... I Love him but I see that He scared to feel the same back..

So My Question Is... What Am I suppose to do? Should I Say somtthing? I can't Just walk away cuz He apart of My life already.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2009):

just tell him how u feel. i was the same way with my best friend (who is also a girl) and she understood that i liked her. we were going out 4 a while and then she realized that she only likes guys. so what im saying is that it dosen`t hurt to try. the worst he could say is no.Good luck!

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