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30-35,
*anja
writes:I really need advice on aproaching a girl.I'll just explain my situation first.I'm 16 and female,I dont much care for labels,all I know is I definatly like girls,and I definaltly like guys.I had a boyfreind not long ago bout found it very..very distasteful.So I suppose I want to find out whether I prefer women.I used to have a best freind,we became very close,much to close for her parents liking,eventaully I spewed my guts to her and admitted my feelings,she said she felt the same but thought tht if we were to be a couple it would jeopradise our bond..But that was it,i snapped cut my wrist,scared my mum to death and since then have tried to eliminate her from my life..she was never good to me anyway,and some of the things she did were unforgiveable,..i realise what i did was ridiculous,but sometimes things just hurt too bad. then I had an internet girlfreind who turned out to be a huge mistake.And now theres this girl who works at a takeaway place ,she has to be at least 3 years older then me.gaahh!why!!??..at first i thought she wasnt very nice,because she kept looking my way and frowning and looking embarrased,but then i realised that she was watching me..like continuously,and looked realli embarrased when i looked back,sometimes i smile,she looks even more embarrased,she doesnt look at me lik other girls do..she looks at me the way i do her,I dont no if she likes women though,i meen she looks like a lesbian,has really short hair..but what does that mean?..nuthing.I have absolutely no idea how I can appraoch her..just say hi..the place is always so crouded,and please nowone suggest slipping her my number with the cash,that would be deathly embarrasing..and I dont even no if she likes me.Does anyone have any suggestions..p.s-sorry about my terrible lack of punctuation,in big rush.
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reader, Jessbabyy  +, writes (26 December 2009):
 You've got eye contact, so approaching her in any way shouldn't feel to weird. She obviously likes something about you if you say shes continuously looking at you out of the whole crowd of people! Just go over to her and start up a conversation, some examples: Busy today then? or Hey im... I realised you were looking in my direction, i just wanted to introduce myself. This may seem like a hopeless and stupid bit of advice, but it will answer your question straight away as to whether she likes you back and doesn't make you seem like a complete weirdo either! It will show her your confident though, and she will like that, making her feel more comfortable replying to you :) Anyway I hope I helped. Please mail me to tell me what happened or what you don't like about my advice and I will try and help you again, or definitly reply. Good luck! Jessbabyy x
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reader, Dear Amanda +, writes (26 December 2009):
You shouldn't feel bad about being a lesbian, as long as you know you are really atractted to the same sex. You should get to know this girl more and when your ready tell her how you feel. If she dosen't feel the same way, then she gave you the wrong impression, but if she does feel the same way then take a chance and see how it works out. Good luck x
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