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*iket389
writes:Oh what am i to do? and why do i get myself in these situations? Ive been talking to a girl for a few weeks whom ive known for a while but just started to actually get to know.. i feel theres chemistry there but she has a boyfriend.. one who she complains about constantly.. ive let her know that i like her but not overbearingly if thats a word.. she just seems unhappy but i don't know why she deals with him.. i don't know how to let her know i really like here without coming on too strong.. and i don't want to be the wedge because i know that only ends up bad... I really do feel we have a connection but shes afraid to admit it... i just wish i knew where i really stood here.. i am most likely fighting a losing battle but i like this girl..please help!
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reader, Brooklyngirl +, writes (26 December 2009):
 Let me tell ya...being in the "friend zone" is the best position of all! If it doesn't turn into more, you still have the advantage of being a good friend!
And the best relationships are those that start out as friendships!
Wishing you the best!
xxBGxx
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reader, Miket389 +, writes (26 December 2009):
Miket389 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell shes not really broken up with him... just doesn't seem like she wants to be in the relationship...
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reader, Libra1963  +, writes (26 December 2009):
 She needs time to get over her boyfriend. Leaver her for a while. Do not allow yourself to be used as a rebound. If you get involved with her make sure it is for the right reasons and not just because you were there.
She needs time and space to grieve the break up of her relationship. If you distance yourself, you will become more attractive and she may be tempted to move on.
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