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writes:i m inna relation with a guy 4m last 4yrs.we r age 20 now. i m a dental student from a educated family n he has just done his school but hav joined his family bissness. he is 4m an orthodox family. his family is really disapointed by him.his family is rude to him. he dont hav any freedom n no family support. he is stressed. i m da only one wit him. i support him 4r all his bad or good things. he was a good guy but now he is changeing. he keeps on hurting me. he knw bout it. he apologize all da time. he always say ' plz help me out i m stressed i m changeing i dont want to be bad but situations make me' but whn i try to help he become arogent n violent. we love each other alot. but it is getting really hard 4r me to manage. i m da 1 wer he can remove his frustration. n he dose. what should i do to make my partner n me happy?????
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reader, Cute +, writes (26 December 2009):
I agree with fishdish, now that the veil of infatuation is coming down you can see his true colors, start running in the opposite direction. Never ever let anyone abuse you under the cover of frustration
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reader, fishdish  +, writes (26 December 2009):
 the fact that your bf has no support system is NOT an excuse for being violent towards you, who is only trying to help. It is UNACCEPTABLE behavior. I'm afraid he's letting out his true colors...why is it that his family has no respect for him, is it also due to a history of violent behavior? He can only help himself at this point. I recommend getting out of this relationship, maybe suggest counseling to him, and be thankful that you survived an abusive relationship and will find true unconditional nonviolent pure love.
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