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writes:I am still in a sexual relationship with a former partner. I suppose I get to see her once a fortnight or once a month. So far she has not been keen on us getting back together formally.My question is do you believe she have other sexual partners beside myself. It is pretty redundant to ask her as I expect she will say no. I do not require advice on our relationship just on the the probability that she is sleeping with others. Like I said we only sleep together once a month or so. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2009): She probably is sleeping with others. Either way she isn't interested in having a meaningful relationship with you. If you are looking for a good long term relationship or a wife, I don't think she is it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for answers so far.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (26 December 2009):
You are asking what the possibility is?
Well that depends on a lot, how high is her sex drive? How pretty is she? and how good are you in bed?
You only want to know this so your male pride can either be satisfied / destroyed. Either way, knowing won't make you happy.
If you can't cope with being friends with benefits then cut contact with her and find a girlfriend. Don't obsess over stupid questions that have no answer.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, meg2989  +, writes (26 December 2009):
 Well I would say it is a possibility, but unless you have more reason to suspect it, you probably won't be able to find out. I know it seems silly to ask, but ask her anyways. Also think of why she may not be so keen about the both of you getting back together maybe something due to your history together? I don't know but its just some food for thought. Best wishes and I hope you are able to work everything out.
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reader, Jessbabyy +, writes (26 December 2009):
 The answer to the question you ask her is most probably yes. If you say you only sleep with her once a month then who can say whether there are other guys like you asking themselves the same question. If shes not keen on getting back together then ask her why. If her answer is stupid and helpless, then the real answer will be because she has more than one sexual relationship on the go and she doesnt want to commit to one nor the other. Sit her down and talk about it if its bothering you this much. Send me a mail if you need any help or just to tell me how it goes. I'll definitly reply! Hope I helped! Jessbabyy x
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2009): I don't think any one would have any idea whether or not she is sleeping with anyone else. What difference would it make, you are not in a committed relationship, so therefore not exclusive and she could sleep with whom ever she wanted to and so could you.
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