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*harlie p
writes:Hi, I've been single for a while (about 6 months), and now I'd like to get back out there and get a girlfriend. I'm a nice fella, about average looks, and what i'd really like is a woman who's funny smart and can take things easy. how do i meet a girl like that? most women i meet are only interested in getting drunk, having causal sex and, quite frankyly arent that interesting to talk to...they dont have much to talk about!!! thats not sexism, far from it, id just like a girl with some real character.How do i meet/attract one? any help from guys and girls would be invaluable, im not being wierd asking this question but ive been off the market for some time and id like to know.thanks.
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reader, charlie p +, writes (27 December 2009):
charlie p is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all your resposnses! i used to enjoy the party girl, but its not much fun anymore...and then i got with my ex, my first serious relationship, and it was infinitely more interesting and fulfilling than doing the same old routine on some drunk girl who walks up to you in a bar. The point about not meeting girls in bars is a very good point...i cant believe i didnt think of it! ill look around locally and see whats going on with the various clubs and societies etc. im sure in the past girls would be looking for serious boyfriend material...now they seem to be more sexually agressive than most guys i know. how the world turns!!!
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reader, meg2989  +, writes (26 December 2009):
 Well what are some things you are personally interested in? For instance sports, hobbies, activities. I would start from there. Think of things that you enjoy doing and join a group that does a certain thing that you enjoy too, you could meet people that way. Or through college, its hard to find women at four year colleges that are ready to settle down and date, but if you take classes at a JC, then you can meet some interesting people there. Thats a few ideas to get you started. I guess you could do online dating too... here is a dating site if you would like it. I've used it to make new friends when I moved and it helped me out a bit. Its Okcupid.com you dont have to go on it for dating, but just check it out. I hope thats helped.
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reader, meg2989 +, writes (26 December 2009):
Well what are some things you are personally interested in? For instance sports, hobbies, activities. I would start from there. Think of things that you enjoy doing and join a group that does a certain thing that you enjoy too, you could meet people that way. Or through college, its hard to find women at four year colleges that are ready to settle down and date, but if you take classes at a JC, then you can meet some interesting people there. Thats a few ideas to get you started. I guess you could do online dating too... here is a dating site if you would like it. I
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2009): Stop trying to meet the right one in bars? Getting drunk, one night stands and non-interesting conversations sounds like you only meet women at parties or at bars?
Do you study? Many bright women go to school, so chances are high you could meet one there. Do you have a good job? Successful women have great jobs, so maybe look around the workplace a bit? Although I would advice you to avoid dating a colleague that works too close to you, as it could be uncomfortable in the workplace with work and romance mixed. But someone who works in the same business or another floor etc. Do you have a hobby? Start playing chess or something and I am sure you'll meet some clever heads there.
All in all, amazing women can be all over. Don't judge before you get to know us though! And you know, these days women have been brainwashed into thinking all guys want is to get laid and the only way we can find a boyfriend is to sleep with him as soon as possible. However: if you show that you have standards, the right one might step up to it and show her true self to you. May I also add in that "you need to kiss some frogs before you find the prince", you know what I mean.
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reader, doom  +, writes (26 December 2009):
 wow if you say you meet such women, then it's stange, believe me you'll find your second part. May be the fact that you were single 6 months , now you are a bit shy?! one suggestion, try searching try everything with every girl you see or like.Because time passes, and we kno w very well, if we don't do anything nothing won't happen.Nothing falls from the sky so easy.Good luck
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