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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have a huge issue. My ex bf and I..we've been broken up 5 years.after a year after our break up, I met someone else.let's call him jo.he is a super nice and cute guy. We've been together 4 years now and have lived together for 2.I love him dearly, but started a relationship with him without being over my ex bf of over 7 years. To make a long story short, 2 years ago me and my ex bf started talking,hanging out and pretty much carrying on a relationship for over 2 years now.my ex knew I had a bf, but never brought it up.I guess he didn't want to know.things were pretty intense between us..we emailed, text and even frequently spent the night together(all behind my bfs back) anyway,about 4 months ago my ex bf decided to call it off, saying it was wrong and blah,blah, blah. I was devastated!a month after us calling it off, he told me he was dating someone,which to me explained why he wanted to cut it off in the first place.so here we are in dec.and he's still going out with this girl,but in the last 2 months has called and text telling me he loves me soo much?we've even hung out and messed around. If he met someone,why is he still pursuing me? I'm in love with him and he knows how easily hurt I am. I don't know what he wants from me? Yes, I know its wrong that I have a great bf that has no idea that I still see my ex but can't let go of my ex. He has a total hold on my heart.what do I do?
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reader, Jodie_Kinsz  +, writes (28 December 2009):
 Well, I don't agree with cheating or sneeking around behind your partner's back in any way, I've had my heart broken by being cheated on, and it is so hard to be forgiven, especially when they keep lying to you! When you trust them more than anything in the world.
Set your current boyfriend free - and confess everything so he doesn't think he's the bad person, and take the fall for your mistakes!
And tell your former partner you love him, and wait to see what he thinks he can do about his current partner.
Jodie.
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