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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Basically a guy attended my school for about a month and we became good friends but then he left and moved to a different city. We still have contact thru facebook but i really miss him. Hes had 2 girlfriends since he left and always coming to me for advice but now i hav seen him move on with his life it makes me upset coz i think i really like him now. Not because hes good looking but i like his personality and how much he trusts me as a friend but i dunno what to do because we dont see much of eachother but if i do tell him that i like him i dont want him to feel akward and not want to be friends anymore :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2009): YOU NEED TO HEAR THE ABSOLUTE TRUTH (EVEN IF YOU DON'T LIKE IT): (this is coming from personal experience) Long-distance relationships hardly ever work. People move on (there are many other fish in the sea)/you're very young and shoudln't be so attached to this boy-I guarantee you'll eventually find a better guy, who you can actually spend time with and be with physically. Blurting out that you think you're in love with him with only scare him and drive him away. It's best to build a relationship with a solid foundation and not just start at the top, that's why having a relationship with someone closer to you will prove to be more beneficial for the both of you.
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