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writes:im 17 and ive been dating this girl for about two months. shes 15 and has made mistakes in her life, she has a baby girl, but i really liked her. people told me the child shouldnt matter.before we started datin she had a crush on my best friend. and they slept together the week before me and her hooked up. her and my best friend had sex. he used her but i really liked her and thought she was cute. He SWORE to me they didnt do it. but she tells me they did. and he also told her friend (which he also slept with) i believe they did because he is a horndong and wouldnt turn down sex.i am a very very jealous person and i have started countless fights about this but she swears its all in the past and that she is with me because she likes me and nobody else. i never mentioned this to my friend cuz i wouldnt want him to think i didnt trust him. but they had sex!! am i at fault??at schoool she acts like i dont even exist. the first two weeks we started datin i was at her house every day and we were fooling around and having fun.. but at school she rarly talks to me. if im lucky she will say hi and give me a hug.it really makes me feel like shes embarresed of me and dont want to be around me in public.but at her or my house its completly differnt. she shows great affection twoards me, tells me she loves me and weve done everything so far. she was my first.my friends think she treats me like shit and i need to move on but every time ive tried she would call me, begging to talk to me. saying she sorry and that she really loves me and wants to be with me.at the moment were not together because of a argument. but tell eachother we love eachother every day and plan to get back together once xmas break is over.. but then we will be back at school which really puts me down in the dumps because of the way she acts.can i get some advice please on what to do or any ideas why she would act like this?
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reader, Jessbabyy  +, writes (26 December 2009):
 Listen to your friends they seem to know whats best for you. Your worth more than being ignored. Ask her why she's like that in school and that your fed up of being messed around. Send me a mail if you need any help or just to tell me how it goes. I'll definitly reply! Hope I helped! Jessbabyy x
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2009): Because she ignores you at school, I think that eventually she will want to move on, probably by pushing you away some how. Just enjoy her company and be cool, but don't get so involved that you feel like heavily arguing with her. If you do this, the relationship will likely last longer as well.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 December 2009):
There is a big warning here. This girl has a lot going on in her life, and I think it would be better to move on from her now before you really get hurt.
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