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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Im 14, female, and bisexual. A month or two ago I was talking about how I feel left out because I hadn't had my first kiss yet. One of my close friends came over during the break that was just starting and she started talking about first kisses and stuff, so I wondered what she was trying to point out. I finally got a hint and asked her something about it and told her I wanted to "Experiment". The truth is that I had and still have a huge crush on her, and I wanted to kiss her. She said it was just as friends, and I agreed. To the point: Today I texted her sayinf that when me and her kissed, I didn't do it to experiment, I did it because I wanted to kiss her. She said "Oh..but you never told me you wanted to kiss me, you told me we did it as friends when we did it.." and i replied saying "I was afraid you wouldn't do it if I told you that I just wanted to kiss you..and I still want to again" And then she said "why didnt you ever tell me until now" and I said "because I was afraid..ive tried telling you before, i didnt know how to bring it up" then she said she was really sorry for not letting me have the chance to tell her (if that makes sense). Then our conversation stopped...I'm very confused...do you think she wants to kiss me again, too, but not as friends? I don't wanna bring it up again... (Sorry this was so long, I had to tell the whole story)
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reader, nice boy +, writes (26 December 2009):
you might have scared her. i take it she's a lesbian but since ur friends with her she might have really just wanted to experiment. i'm sorry to bring the bad news.
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