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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Me and boyfriend are too jealous over each other. Neither one of us have cheated or done anything. we have been together for 2 years. Is there a reason why? and what can we do to change this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2009): Hello,
2 years is a long time to be going out and not being able to really trusy each other,
You should be able to have boy friends; likewise he should be able to have girl friends
Yeah, you two are an item. but you should have freedom too,. and do things with each other, i dont mean sexually i mean like going out together, even if it is something silly like shopping you are still getting out and about with your boyfriend, building more of a relationship with him
if you feel you really cant trust him then you have to call it a day, you need trust for a relationship
Hope this helps. x
also, you need to tell him what your thinking dont sit there and let it blow over thinking it wil get better! :)
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reader, Libra1963 +, writes (27 December 2009):
You are not in a health relationship if you can not trust each other. If you both really love each other, you shold be able to go places and do things where there are members of the opposite sex and not feel threatened.
There is a big trust issue here and it sounds like you both need to sit down and talk. May be you both really do love each other but you can not keep going on like this.
Talk and communicate your feelings and start trusting each other otherwise you relationship will fail.
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