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writes:I just had a fight with my long distance bf. The fight was over the fact that he singed up at a dating site, looking for a girl, and althgout he did not made any communitation with any girl, I am mad with the idea that while I am counting the minutes 'll the time to see him, he is at a dating site.The thing is that we went without talking for about 4 days; but now that we started talking again he acts as if nothing happened. How do I talk about it? How do I make it understand that this can't happen again..Advice please
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reader, x-kitycatlok-x  +, writes (3 April 2008):
 You need to tell him that you really do have a problem with it, and if it happens again then you're not sure how it can work out. Trust is broken when people cheat, and trust is important in any relationship. Without it you can pretty much wave your relationship goodbye.
Tell him how you feel about it and tell him that you're not comfortable. Also explain what will happen if he does it again.
Wishing you the best.
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reader, Laraymoose +, writes (3 April 2008):
 You need to make it very clear what will happen with the relationship if anything like this happens again. Be firm about it so he knows you're serious. Tell him exactly how you feel because most likely he's clueless and doesn't realize that what he did is very wrong and unacceptable. That's what I'd do if I was in your place. Best of luck.
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