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I'm a bit confused with his behaviour...

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Question - (3 April 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 3 April 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello Everyone! How are you all doing? I have a bit of a dilemma. It may seem a bit juvenile but I'm really frustrated and irked by it. Anyway I have a major crush on this boy. He's rather cute and we are both in the same grade (9th) and share a few classes together. Any who I know he likes me (or at least he did) because one of his friends told me so, he practically yelled it at me. My first question is why would he ask one of his friend to do that? That incident happened months ago.

My second question is, Is he interested? At first he use to stare at me quite often but lately he doesn't seem interested. He seems almost scared to talk to me and is rather aloof. Around me he's quiet but with his friends he's a bit of a bully. Why does he behave this way? Does he like me or not or is this wishful thinking on my part? Please help. Feel free to message me and comment. I would greatly appreciate it. =-)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008):

The exact same thing happend to me, his mates told me he liked me, we talked on msn and admitted he did, then in person he was just totally shy.

Well As for the first question,

Guys don't normally tell their feeling about a girl up front to them, they tell a few of their mates and that's it, he probably didnt tell his mate to yell that, boys just tease one another.

Eye contact is the most obvious way of flirting, if he was doing that alot then he was most definate intrested, maybe you should just make genral conversation with him and make him feel more comfortable around you so then that shiel of him being shy will slowly dissappear.

Guys Are completley diffrent around their mates and the girl they like, my advice would be as i said just to make him feel comfortable around you, and show that your just like any other person .

But i would say he is most definate intrested/

Mail Me If Yoou want more help(:

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