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anonymous
writes:I want to make out with my boyfriend but i'am really scared to bc i have never done it before and the pressure is really starting to get to me bc all my friends have done but not me and i'am really scared!! what do i do???? Reply to this Question
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reader, BigSis  +, writes (4 April 2008):
 Well, Smiffy, I think that maybe the first few answers were more than likely posted by teenagers themselves.
Us as agony aunts are here to advise and hope the question asker takes heed, but to encourage someone who is below the legal age limit, to me, is totally wrong.
I just can't understand what the big rush is ~ to go out, have sex and lose one's virginity.
13-15 is the stage a girl is at when her body is neither child nor woman, hense the confused hormones going wild.
Girls, wise words of advice {even if I say so myself} time will pass quickly, and before you know it, your body will be ready to take on full intercourse and whatever comes
with it.
Be safe....BigSis xXx
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reader, Smiffy  +, writes (4 April 2008):
 I cant belive most of you are telling this girl to go ahead....!!!
Firstly it is not legal to have sex below the age of 16....secondly...enjoy being a teenager...most of your friends WILL regret what they have done in the future....just be different...be yourself...dont let others lead you into something you may regret later...
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reader, BigSis +, writes (3 April 2008):
You'd be less scared if you weren't so young. You're also scared because you are obviously not ready for it.
Your quote;
''the pressure is really starting to get to me bc all my friends have done but not me and i'am really scared!!...what do i do????''
What do you do? Just because all your friends have done it, doesn't mean you HAVE to do it, does it?
Will it be some kind of massive achievment to lose your virginity right now? Are your friends taking the mick because you are still a virgin?
The other thing I would like to add is ~ you are not of legal age yet to be having sexual intercourse...are you aware that the legal age of consent is 16?
Please don't feel pressured and rush into 'doing it'. Can't you tell 'your friends' you are not ready and want to wait 'til it is legal, AND when you've found someone special.
Don't think i'm being old fashioned here and having a go at you, I just want you to think sensibly about what you're final decision will be.
Please take care.
BigSis xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): i only have one simple answer for you:GO FOR IT! do not be scared just aim for the guy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): I remember my first time when I made out with my boyfriend, i was seriously worried and scared just incase i did it wrong.but the truth is there is no right way or wrong way of making out. When you do make out with him, it will just come naturally, just follow his lead, and don't think about it too much, cause eventually when it happens if your nervous he will be able to sence it.When i made out with my boyfriend afterwards, I thought to myself why was i worried so much? Trust Me You Have nothing to worry about. Mail me for anything elsex3
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reader, crazyone +, writes (3 April 2008):
 Hey don't be scared. When it happenes you'll know what to do. It's really hard to explain. Don't just make out with him because all your friends are though. Do it if you REALLY want to. Make sure it's special... so it should be your choice.
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reader, Skeez +, writes (3 April 2008):
 He's your boyfriend hun. He may be waiting for it too. Just start off casually kissing him. If he wants it too he won't stop you kissing him. You will be all right, but even though all your friends are doing it doesn't mean you have to rush into anything. Most relationships work out better if you wait until the time's right to do these certain things.you'll be fine hunnigood luck
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