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writes:I am a married women of 10 years and never found my self interested in another man. I have now started to see one of my best friends that is no longer with his wife which is also my best friend I know this is wrong that I am seeing him but I love the way i feel with him. I know no one can ever find out about us to many people will be hurt over all but I am not ready to leave i feel that i am starting to have feelings for him but i am not sure how he feels any advice?
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reader, Cindy303 +, writes (4 April 2008):
 Your situation is a very difficult one. I know you came here looking for some advice. If you have strayed off the road of your marriage you need to figure out why. Are you not in love with him anymore? Do you feel like you dont want to be married to him anymore? Starting to see this other man and building feelings towards him may lead to alot of broken hearts and a painful ending. If this man your seeing makes you happy and you are wanting to continue the relationship then its time to maybe think about ending the marriage or taking a trial seperation. I know how difficult this situation is. I wish you the best of luck. Cindy
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): When we feel like this, feelings for someone else, we need to look inside as to the how's and why's of it and understand why it isn't felt with our current relationship. If not, we will repeat it in everything we do until we learn why.
You know it isn't fair to your marriage, if something is missing in it, then it is up to the both of you to work it out or divorce.
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reader, maria14r +, writes (3 April 2008):
Well first of all i think that you should make sure he feels the same way before you leave. talk to him. tell him how you feel. thats wat i would do
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