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She doesn't trust me.

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Question - (3 April 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 10 April 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *ushlass93 writes:

my maam is butting in on my life and she wont stop

i am with a boy and we havnt had sex but we had done things together before he has cheated on me in the past

but i like him alot but she doesnt trust me and i am sick of her and talking i wish she wud leave me alone and let me make my own decision as she thinks am going to have sex but thats my decision.

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A female reader, lushlass93 United Kingdom +, writes (10 April 2008):

lushlass93 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

lushlass93 agony auntthanx a lot for your answers all of this has pened up so much and i know what i'm going to do now thanx for all of your help!!!

xxxxx lushlass93

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008):

Why don't you convince her that you aren't going to go behind her back - you do love your bf but you haven't had sex yet.

She loves you and wants you to be safe - don't forget that - but if you don't tell her that you are getting a bit upset with her fussing over you, if you don't communicate with her then you will lose her trust. The thing to do is to be trustworthy and prove that you are responsible. x x x

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A female reader, HElPFUl AsHlEy AsK mE QUESTi0NS United States +, writes (3 April 2008):

HElPFUl AsHlEy AsK mE QUESTi0NS agony auntWhen you say your maam..do you mean your MOM ?? if so then all you have to do is prove to her that you are'nt going to have sex, and if you do, tell her before you do, it will make her feel GREAT that you would go to her with SUCH PERSONAL information.... I told my mom i was getting older and starting to explore myself in different sexual ways.. and i had thoughts of sexual acts with my boyfriend..and i told her that me and my boyfriend had talked about having sex...and she called our doctors and set up a well woman check..and put me on birth control..i have'nt had sex with him yet..but she was happy i told her.. because she didnt want me to be like her..Mother at 17..and im 15..so yeah..

Talk to her about you feeling uncomfortable with her being nosy, and that you would like her to stop being nosy...

hope this helped..

AShley

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