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I need a confidence boost, can you help, please?

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Question - (3 April 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 April 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi there, I am an 18 year old male that can't seem to get an erection anymore. All through out high school, i would get random erections all day long, and now it seems that i only get one in the morning when i wake up.

I believe it is from failed attempts at sex and low confidence. i also have some epidermal cysts in my testicals, which for a while, i thought was cancer, until i saw my doctor and he told me that they were nothing but epidermal cysts and not to worry.

For some reason, i still have it burned into my mind that i have cancer and that every time i try to have sex, i won't be successful. i do not have the money for therapy, and i need to know if there is anything i can do for this, ways to boost confidence, hypnosis,anything. Please help.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2008):

i have been trying to not let it become a hang-up, but i used to be so attracted to the slightest thing a girl would do, i still can tell a good looking girl from a not so good looking one, but i just can't get an erection for the life of me. :/

it leaves me ridiculously anxious and distressed.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (3 April 2008):

DoubleM agony auntConfidence is something that will develop over time. I've never had the problem of erectile dysfunction until recently with age and too many medications, and I doubt that your experience is remotely related. You do not detail your so-called "failed attempts" but I think that you just need to be with the right girl and feel very comfortable for things to work out. You are still very young and should not let this become a hang up.

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