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writes:My boyfriend has told me to back off a bit. I haven't text him much at all but when I do I'm wondering should I still tell him I love him? Or if I don't say it, will it make him miss me? Please Help x
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008): iv been in this situation before and trust me if he really love you they wouldnt put you through that.
i think us ladies should stop chasing the boys at the end of the day if they dont care why should you.
let them do the chasing this will show if you actally mean anything to them.
i hope this helps x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): I don't blame you for feeling so confused at the moment. Don't make any tea for him or have anything ready. When he turns up say tell him you have nothing ready for him as he never confirmed/said for sure what time he would be over at.
I wouldn't ring/text him again. Let him come to you, let him chase you for a change. Guys like a chase, if you are too eager they lose interest. I'm determined not to ring/text my guy even tho its killng me on the inside!
Send me a private message of you want to talk more also
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe called me last night and said he'd sorted his head and felt alot better! Very quick i must say. He said he would come and see me tonight for tea, but i havent heard from him since 5 yesterday. He didnt even say goodnight or morning like he usually does. Im not sure what i've done! I still text him last night and this morning and once before to ask if he was ok, but nothing. So i dont know if i should make him some tea or not!!!! Im so confused x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): Thats exactly how I feel about my guy too!! I woke up in the middle of the nite and I wanted to text him sooo much to tell him how much I miss him...
Its nearly 3 weeks now and I've only gotten 2 emails and 2-3 texts!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe just said he needed a bit of space and time to think. He told me he still wants me to text and ring occasionally but just not as much. Im scared if i dont say i love him then he'll think ive gone off him. Its awful. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): I'm in the same situation as you are... My boyf and I are on a "break" at the moment and I haven't spoken to him in 2 weeks. This was his idea so I am trying to respect his wishes by not contacting but its been the worst and hardest 2 weeks of my life!
I'm thinking if I don't contact him does the think I don't care about him or if I do does it make me looking needy and desperate. I'm not sure what to do for the best...
I suppose it all depends on the situation and why tho he asked you to back off as well....
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