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writes:Hey Y'all,Right I know your probably gonna think I'm "too young for a relationship" but I've recently been in two (not at the same time) but near enough after each other.First of all and I know we didn't last long but I was with my ex, (Lets call him number 1) for a mear 6 weeks, not long I know and im in my 3rd year at high school, his 4th and I'd fancied him since my second day at school, literally the moment I saw him I was like "wow, hes georgus" and we went out from september - november 2007 and I was Devostated when he ended it, and worst of all, I never saw it coming. We were always together in school, but outside I never saw him except the once when I met his mum for his birthday. And at weekends we were always texting each other or on msn to each other, he never wanted me to do things with him (naughty thing) and even if he did i'd say no. However if we'd of lasted a while (6-7 months) and we were both ready I would of.During school, we were always together and when we first kissed, I was on a high all week, he made me feel so happy and after my dark period I went through I felt like I was cloud nine. Anyway the day he dumped me, by text I was devastated and I couldn't stop crying, I never have quite found out why he ended it, and im pretty sure hes over me however. My Other ex, (number 2) and I were together for 2 months. I really liked him because he saved me, and we were going to be "forever" and all that jazz but he ended it saying, he lost the connection and he thought I was over crowding him, when i think him who was over-crowding me. I'm over Number 2 now, it's just number 1. Being with No 2 took my mind of No 1 even though my feelings never went away, I had something else to concentrate on. I'm going back to school on Wednesday, and I'm not looking forward to seeing everyone, because it will all be about him and how and why number 2 dumped me. And I'll see number one most of the day, which brings me down, I really do need help because I dunno what to do. CheersChelsea
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (4 April 2008):
 I know that the prospect of seeing them and explaining is filling you with trepidation, but I'm sure it won't be as bad as you think. It's like a band-aid, the pain will be gone faster if you take it off quickly, so don't put it off or avoid going in. Your break-up will only be "today's" news for one day, and then something else will come up and become the topic of conversation the next day. I would just think through all of the possible questions and have an answer ready in your head for any possibility.
Draw a limit at what you are willing to answer if it does get too personal. Not everything that goes on is everyone else's business, and you don't always have to answer every question. A short response like, "Why would you want to know that?" or "How is that any of your business?" usually stops the rudest questions. This too shall pass. You will probably be pleasantly surprised by how quickly this will blow over. Hang in there, baby.
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