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writes:My daughter was a teen when she had her 1st child, she now is 30yrs old and has been married for 13yrs and has 3 children, she now realizes that she doesn't love her husband anymore and now she is separated from him leaving the 3 children with him due to fact that they want to stay with the dad, Also she has been having relionship with another guy and has just got pregnant and she not sure what to do the guy she got pregnant with is also married with children going through a divorce, and he's in love with her. he want her to get a abornation. What is your suggestion?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2008): first off, abortion is like murder to someone who hasn't even seen the world yet! Why would you do such a cruel thing to a poor helpless baby. It not the baby's fault that her parents didn't make a wise choice. Ask your daughter what she wants. Abortion is a very serious matter, and it's not the very best choice. How would you like it if you never saw the light of day and died before you even took your first breath? It's another type of murder, it's like being a little girl back in the old days ad being buried alive. People used to do that because they didn't want baby girls. Just think about it and ask yourdaughter what she thinks is right, if she wants the baby, tell her to find a guy that wants it too. She doesn't need a guy that doesn't compromise to her descisions.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (4 April 2008):
 They probably should have used a condominium. I know that you love your daughter and want to help her with her decision. She (and he) are the only people that have to live with all of the consequences of their decision and it is her body, so I would suggest that she is the one who should make this decision. I'm afraid that any suggestions, even from her Mother, might be mistaken for interfering, however well intended.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): The fact that he wants her to get an abortion sends a strong message that he probably does not really intend to be with her long-term. If she has an abortion she may regret it for the rest of her life. On the other hand, she may have the child and the father is not there for her. It does not sounds to me like that other guy really wants her though - cause if he did he should be excited to be starting a new family with her.
Also, has she divorced her husband?
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